Tuesday, January 27, 2009

is it that heavy?

On the first day of the chinese new year, which is yesterday, my family went out and had lunch at Xing Wang and caught "Love Matters" at GV Yishun. And later at night, i caught "Bride Wars". I like the movie because it had this theme, about someone, either a friend/lover/wife/husband, always standing behind and/or beside you, and supporting you...


I missed this smile... :p




I don't want to say it but i thought this rat looked a bit.... ugly :/


does uninvolved means less affected? ...

If you're thinking that life is too easy, it doesn't mean it is. It's just that the ppl around you are taking up more of the burden. You might be less affected because you chose to pick up less of the burden. The bigger the burden, the heavier the weightage.. And it also differs from different individuals. As in.. 1kg might seem like 1 kg to you... 5 kg might seem like 6 kg to you... but 1 kg might seem like 2 kg to others... 5 kg might seem like 8 kg to others. There are 2 factors involved here. One is the size of the actual burden. While the other factor is the individual's perception of the burden..

Does perceiving the burden to be smaller than the actual size means taking the burden lightly?

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Think i should be more sensitive to everything around me and help in whatever way i can...

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey. is that you in The Wedding Game? I think i saw you inside.

宅男 - 国容 said...

yep.. couldn't bear to look at myself.. :s

Anonymous said...

i was waiting for the ending name list to see if its really you. haha

u look quite nice inside actually. be it photos or on-screen, u still have that edison look. haha

anyway. HAPPY CHINESE NEW YR!

Anonymous said...

haha. i was abt to ask you if ur're a part time actor or anything, just caught the show. haha. but.. why couldn't bear to look at urself ? lol

宅男 - 国容 said...

.. i'm not used to seeing myself on screen ba..

Anonymous said...

Heh~ That's the concept of idiosyncrasy.. See? You are also using it what.. =P

phakdii

Anonymous said...

erm. nt used but u still went for it?

how contradicting, alright i think u will delete this message as well.

just wierd.

宅男 - 国容 said...

hmmm.. not used to seeing myself on screen... does being not used to it, mean that i cannot do it? ... i'll only delete comments that are used to hurt me.. this is still okay..

weird is what the majority or some individuals cannot accept... but who's to define what are the opinions of the majority? ...

Anonymous said...

haha~~ u look cool in it. Be confident okokiez, u r qualified tts y ppl chose u.

Anyway its okokiez to feel weird, not everybody has the opportunity to appear in big screen. Furthermore its your 1st time, some ppl doesnt even have their 1st time... =)

Anonymous said...

i think perceiving it to be smaller translates to optimism and not taking it lightly. so.. there's no wrong/harm in doing that. sometimes we just have to make life easier for ourselves yo...

and cool u're on screen! LOL.

Anonymous said...

haha. i agree with stranger. have confidence in yourself. :) anyways, happy chinese new yr. ^^

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