Thursday, May 21, 2009

tips to having a good life (not in relative terms)













friendly

There was an article on an interesting website in today's papers.

http://www.couchsurfing.org/

I haven't really went to look at the site. But apparently, it's a website where you can register and you could be a host to guests from other countries by accepting their requests or ,when you go overseas, you can bunk on the couches or guest rooms of others when others accept your requests. And, the locals could choose to take the guests around for a tour of their country. .... ... Think I might try it if i have my own home.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

vibes

"All the world is exchanging energy all the time.
Your energy is pushing out, touching everything else. Everything and everyone else is touching you. But now an interesting thing happens. At some point midway between you and everything else – those energies meet.
To make a more vivid description, let’s imagine two people in the room. They are on the far sides of the room from each other. We’ll call them Tom and Mary.
Now Tom’s personal energy is transmitting signals about Tom in a 360-degree circle out in the universe. Some of that energy wave hits Mary.
Mary, meanwhile, is emitting her own energy – some of which hits Tom.
But these energies meet each other in a way you may not have thought of. They meet midway between Tom and Mary.
Here, the energies unite (remember now, these energies are physical phenomena; they can be measured, felt) and combine to form a new energy unit we'll call "Tomary." It is the energy of Tom and Mary combined.
Tom and Mary could very well call this energy The Body Between Us - for it is just that: a body of energy to which both are connected, which both are feeding the continuing energies which flow to it, and which is sending energies back to its two "sponsors" along the thread, or cord, or pipeline that always exist within the Matrix. (Indeed, this "pipeline" is the Matrix.)
It is this experience of "Tomary" which is the truth of Tom and Mary. It is to this Holy Communion that both are drawn. For they feel, along the pipeline, the sublime joy of the Body Between, of the Joined One, of the Blessed Union.
Tom and Mary, standing off at a distance, can feel - in a physical way - what is going on in the Matrix. Both are urgently drawn toward this experience. They want to move toward each other at once! At once!
Now their "training" sets in. The world has trained them to slow down, to mistrust the feeling, to guard against "hurt", to hold back.
But the soul... wants to know "Tomary" - now!
If te two are lucky, they will be free enough to set aside their fears and trust that love is all there is.
They are irrevocably drawn now, those two, to the Body Between Them. TOMARY is already being experienced metaphysically, and Tom and Mary will want to experience it physically. So they'll move closer together. Not to get to each other. It looks that way to the casual observer. But they are each trying to get to TOMARY. they are trying to reach that place of Divine Union which already exists between them. The place where they already know they are One - and what it is like to be One.
So they move toward this "feeling" they are experiencing, and, as they close the gap between them, as they "shorten the cord," the energy they are both sending to TOMARY travels a shorter distance and is thus more intense.
They move closer still. The shorter the distance, the greater the intensity. They move closer still. Once more the intensity increases.
Now they just stand a few feet apart. The Body Between them is glowing hot. Vibrating with terrific speed. The "connection" to and from TOMARY is thicker, wider, brighter, burning with the transfer of incredible energy. The two are said to be "burning with desire." They are!
They move closer still.
Now, they touch.
The sensation is almost unbearable. Exquisite. They feel, at the point of their touch, all the energy of TOMARY - all the compacted, intensely unified substance of their Combined Being.
If you open yourself to your greatest sensitivity, you'll be able to feel this subtle, sublime energy as a tingling when you touch - sometimes the "tingling" will run right through you - or as heat at the point of your touch - heat which you may also suddenly feel throughout your body - but concentrated deeply within your lower chakra, or energy center.
It will "burn" there especially intensely - and Tom and Mary will now be said to have the "hots" for each other!
Now the two embrace, and they close the gap even further, with Tom, Mary, Tomary all filling nearly the same space. Tom and Mary can feel Tomary between them - and they want to get even closer - to literally meld with Tomary. To become Tomary in physical form.
I have created in the male and female bodies a way to do that. At this moment, Tom and Mary's bodies are ready to do that. Tom's body is now ready to literally enter Mary. Mary's body is ready to literally receive Tom within her.
The tingling, the burning, is now beyond intense. It is ... indescribable. The two physical bodies join. Tom, Mary, and Tomary become One. In the flesh.
Still the energies flow between them. Urgently. Passionately.
They heave. They move. They can't get enough of each other, can't get close enough together. They strive to get close. Close. CLOSER.
They explode - literally - and their entire physical bodies convulse. The vibration sends ripples to their fingertips...."
- quoted from "Conversations with God - Book Two"

what do you expect?

I cannot keep going blindly against the expectations others have of me. I have to see whether those are the same as mine...... and then decide whether to go against them... :p

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

self-gratification

"All of your life you have been taught that it is better to give than to receive. Yet you cannot give what you do not have.
This is why self-gratification is so important – and why it is so unfortunate that it has come to sound so ugly. Obviously, self-gratification at the expense of others is not what we’re talking about here. This is not about ignoring the needs of others. Yet life should also not have to be about ignoring your own needs. Give yourself abundant pleasure, and you will have abundant pleasure to give others."
-quoted from the 2nd book.

shooting me?

ohh... i almost forgot... but i still remembered... :/ I think i need to say it out here to get it out of my system.

Last Saturday, while i was on my way out of sentosa, there was this not bad looking couple sitting in front of me on the sky train. My friend nudged me as i was typing some smses and said that he will tell me something after we get off. Soon after, when we reached vivocity, he told me that, the couple in front of me, thought that i was taking pictures of them using my handphone :s I think it was because i was kind of holding my camera upright, and right in front of them... but i wasn't aware of this when i was doing it. At first, i felt very maligned= yuan wang (chim word!! :p ), but i realized that i had one or two similar experiences when i thought someone else was taking photos of me because they had their cameras up right in front of me. I will not jump to conclusions next time, and i will be more sensitive to other people next time, either by covering up my camera when i sms in front of others (chris taught me this method), or by not holding up my handphone at a too upright position.

Monday, May 18, 2009

choice

"Decide Who You Are – Who you want to be – and then do everything in your power to be that

Yet do not choose sex instead of love, but as a celebration of it. And do not choose power over, but power with. And do not choose fame as an end in itself, but as a means to a larger end. And do not choose success at the expense of others, but as a tool with which to assist others. And do not choose winning at any cost, but winning that costs others nothing, and even brings them gain as well.
Go ahead and choose the adulation of others – but see all others as beings upon which you can shower adulation, and do it!
Go ahead and choose being better – but not better than others; rather, better than you were before.
Go ahead and choose having more, but only so that you have more to give.
And yes, choose “knowing how” and “knowing why” – so that you can share all knowledge with others."
- quoted from the 2nd book.

feel in

I went kayaking again this sunday :o









I didn't expect to do anything new this time, but we did :o We docked at the mini jetty at Marina Barrage.




All their jumping photos rock :o seriously... I like the background of the sky in the photos.



:s









You can be who you want to be. But if you don't feel(not think) good being that person, it means that you don't want to be that person.. Just go in a different direction...

a ware

Being aware allows you to know the effects of everything you think, say and do. Use this awareness to aid you in being the better person.. the person you want to be.


sand angel :o

Friday, May 15, 2009

piss on

Too much or too little of anything isn't good. But again, the definition of too little or too much is subjective... subjected to your own definition, not others'... Remember that you don't have to approve to be able to accept..


Do you always get pissed off at other people? If yes, and if you want to stop getting pissed off, please refer to the message below. (sent to my friend this morning... :p )
"Hmmm... I'll try to explain it again... But this would require some effort from you to understand and believe...
Ok.. If you want to stop yourself from always getting pissed off at others, please continue to read the msg.
The reason y u get pissed off at others, is mainly because you have expectations of them. You expect them to behave in a certain way, you expect them not to behave in a certain way.. You must know that there is no way for you to control how they behave.. So... Everytime when you get pissed off at others, you pause and think.. Whether it is because you have expectations.. Then you tell yourself that you cannot control them.. Then you just accept it and let go... Then go do your other stuff.. ... There is really no point in you getting pissed because it doesn't change anything.. Will not change your perception and will not change how the other person act now or in the future.."
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