friends

I really appreciate all the friends i have.. especially those whom we can be ourselves in front of each other, not having to control or hide our feelings or whatever we are thinking. ... ... Thank you! .... (They know who they are :o)

another

Another day. Another morning. Another breakfast. Another one.


(said in the moment... :p)

"HIYAH!"

bamboo boy

Everyone sees everyone and everything in their own way. It is not important that they see things in your way. And you will not feel good if you were told to see it their way. You can have a lot of views and opinions from others and from yourself, but in the end... you choose which way to see or which ways to see. .... And it doesn't mean that you cannot accept how others see it. You might not approve of it, but you can still accept others for the way they see everything and everyone.


P.S. The majority way does not necessarily mean the right way and.... right is subjective.

drabby and gloomy

hmmmmm..... I might be feeling this way because i have not finished my report and do not have enough rest...... Gotta take action :o

2 yummy first times

First time having the ice cream besides Starbucks, in Citylink.


First time having the soup at Souperlicious at Suntec :o

"life is such"

Life consists of everything. There is both good and bad in it, at all times. I just realized, as most of us grow older, we tend to focus more on the bad side. It is not a matter of facing reality or reaching maturity. It is a matter of choice of which part you want to focus on. We will feel a lot better if we appreciate the good part and know the purpose of why the bad part is there.


P.S: We are not lying to ourselves when we choose to see the good side.

ten zhui kuehs

gr's confident walk :o

1. while walking, keep your back straight
2. chest out and stomach in
3. relax your shoulders
4. remember to breathe regularly
5. eyes looking straight

.... I wonder if everybody has their own version of their confy walk :o ..... maybe some might like to skip once in a while, or even jiggle their shoulders while they walk? ... :p I think it's possible...

?? I look so fat after only a few dishes???? .... :6

Anyway, I want to mention this person called mr ng at my workplace. Because he has been very good to ting ting and me. He's always buying us food after lunch. At first, it was just chocolate bars. Then it changed to xia bing and yam cake. Then recently, he bought me zhui kuehs because he thought i like it but i seldom eat it. As zhui kuehs would not taste nice after they are not hot, i finished them up right after i had my lunch.... :s i told him to stop just after he bought it twice..... Then it is tapioca kueh and rainbow coloured kueh... Finally, today, i told him not to buy any more food for me because i didn't want him to spend any more money on me and i felt that i was feeling less appreciative of the food he bought. But overall, I am very grateful to him because whenever he comes, i know that i definitely will not be hungry..... :p

shelter

This is the second time that it was used since i bought it for $5.50 from Carrefour 2 weeks back. I wanted to spin it and it didn't go more than 10 degrees when the top part just twisted off.. and i was stunned for 2 seconds :s .... At least it managed to shelter me from the slight drizzle for a small stretch of road this morning.

same intent, different method

don't take things for granted (negative connotation?) = appreciate things (a more positive connotation?)

differwent same

Does anybody know of any symptoms that will occur before you get skin cancer? I think i've been getting quite a lot of sun lately.... :s








Our first time :o touching the danger line over at Marina Barrage... The others were too lazy to paddle a few more hundred metres.... :p




Since young, i think most of us have been conditioned to see things in the same way, behave in the same way.

See things in the same way being, we will tend to slap labels on things with one or two similar characteristics, with regards to our past experiences.
Behave in the same way being, whenever we behave differently from how we normally behave, people will ask us whether there is anything wrong. And this question will keep popping up until, we think that it is normal for us to always be the same, abnormal to be different from usual. And we'll also tend to behave in a way which others expect from us. There are a lot of reasons for this. e.g. to want to be liked, to not let others down, to depend on others' expectations for convenience's sake ( because it is easier to blame others for not being able to reach their expectations instead of yours...), etc...

We do not have to limit ourselves by always having to see things in the same way, and we don't have to limit ourselves by always having to believe in the same way or in any other way that we are not comfortable with. So, whenever you do any of these 2 actions, ask yourself whether you are doing these out of habit or out of force or whether you have tried and experienced everything yourself, and you like these the best.