friends

I'm sure friends will not hurt each other deliberately.. unless they don't really treat each other as friends.. If you're hurt by your friend's behavior or attitude, the situation will not get better if you do not let him/her know. You can just let your friends know how you really feel, and maybe they can let you know why they behave in that way. Purpose of doing this would be to let the other party know why you're hurt by what, and you'll know why the other party did what they do. (The 2 parties must really be truthful to each other and not hide any feelings or thinking from each other.) They might not have behaved the way you think they did. But if they did, maybe you could try to understand why they did it, and try to accept this behavior or maybe you 2 could come to a compromise, because i'm sure you'll want to be friends for a long time and it's no point for you tyo keep getting angry over the same thing. I think sometimes, we tend not to be mindful of how we're treating our friends, as in, we might be hurting our friends unknowingly. So, as friends, i think we should just let each other know if there's anything that each other had done to hurt the other, so issues can be rectified at that point of time. But at the same time.. we shouldn't be stingy with our genuine praises :p

... Why do friends like to hide things from each other? Is it because of the fear of being rejected for being different? (Friends should accept each other for who they are. Everybody is unique. Everyone has their good and bad points. Nobody is perfect.)Is it because of the fear of being seen as a bad person? (... Nobody likes to be seen as a bad person. But you should dare to admit what you think and do. You must accept yourself before others can accept you. If you're not a bad person, then you don't have to be afraid of rumours.)Is it the fear of being hurt by the people you open up to? (... This is a gamble. Friends shouldn't hurt each other.. But there are some who treat friends lightly. You have to be careful but you shouldn't be too paranoid. )Is it because of the laziness or maybe you find it troublesome to explain your behavior/thinking/actions to your friends? ( It's not that easy to be friends with someone, you got to put in effort into friendships.)

Ignorance is really bliss.... :s