I heard this from my friend and i think it should be the power quote of the month :o ... :p "It's easier to find a girlfriend/boyfriend than a good friend."
How many good friends do we have that's not the result of convenience (e.g. lazy to open up to others, thinking we have enough friends, or just because we always hang out with them, etc..)? I think a lot of us don't want to break out of our comfort zone to open up to other people. Maybe it's partly because we're afraid that the friendship might not workout, or we're afraid of rejections..
Definition of good friends ( to me at least ) : Those people whom you're always with, don't automatically qualify as your good friends. Good friends are those people who you'll open up to, and they'll also open up to you. There's no barriers and masks in between. Both parties will put in the effort to listen to each other, and put in the effort in the answers to each other.. ( I think this is the definition of how a normal friend should be.. dozens of years ago.. but given how the world is now...)
Do you want to try to be a good friend to someone new today? It's not really that difficult..
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