Previously, i've always held the belief that people's lives should go on per normal even if they get attached/married because i thought that most people get chained or chained themselves up with each other, causing disruptions to their lives. But i got to see a new perspective recently. In this case, priorities changes when it happens. Normal habits might change but you would still be you, i would still be me.重爱轻友 is not 重色轻友 ...
I think a lot of us go for things that we can't have, rather than what we really want...
Everything is good for us, everything is bad for us...
For example, we might not be able to get on the bus that we're rushing for. If we do manage to get on the bus, there's a possibility that we might see someone that we don't want to see, or we might get into an argument with someone else on board, or someone very disgusting might sit next to you on the bus for the whole journey... :s, etc... Another example would be when we can't be with the person we want to be with. Things might not turn out well in the end. Why don't we see the smaller portion of food served to us as an opportunity to lose weight instead of complaining that it's not enough? Why don't we just see the good that might have came out of the seemingly bad situation?
Positive feelings will generate even more positive feelings, and this goes the same for negative feelings.
I'm using this technique called "framing" which means to enclose your subject with boundaries so that viewers will be able to focus on the subject at once.
nutty thai accent :o
Think i have "blog block" today... I shall go and sleep now :/
I just got back from the supermarket after buying yakult, yoghurt, instant noodles and strawberries... :p Anyway, while i was queuing up, i was thinking of a few times when i got irritated when i found out that the queue that i chose to stand behind, turned out to be slower than the other queues :p Then just now, i told myself that i shouldn't get irritated over such stuff as it is the same as comparing others and yourself, who they are and what they have, between who you are and what you have. 人比人,气死人. So, i told myself not to compare and just have faith in my own queue... If it's fast, it's fast, if it's slow, it's slow... I've made my choice and i should accept it.
kh was just telling me that i'll be touched by the movie "10 promises to my dog". And i said i'll most probably be.. ...Actually, i'm not very sure :p I haven't tried animal-people relationship shows before... Anyway, i like shows that are very touching. And i told him that the reason i like it so much, is because i haven't been touched in a very long time, so i get a kick out of watching such shows :p
Good day everyone :o