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There are some people who say hurtful words which they don't mean. You just got to learn to filter those words out, and stay calm so as not to aggravate the situation. Most of the time, they would have regretted that those words came out of their mouths.

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Slacktivism... David introduced this word to me, telling me that this word somehow reminds him of me. This word actually means doing pointless activities to help in a good cause.. :s I questioned him about this and he exclaimed that he don't know why this word reminded him of me :/

But it got me thinking as to whether the things i am going to do, are pointless. Think I will start to be more aware about this aspect..

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There is this recent and reoccurring issue. I remembered that I like being close with friends but I do not socialize well. I think it is because I am quite serious and I don't really know how to crap well. My friend mentioned that I am quite socially-inept.. I was thinking that the first two points which i mentioned, was contradictory. Now, I know it is not. It is something like, I know how to eat my cereal and milk, but i use my hands instead of using a spoon.

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I am hungry now... :s

starry expectations

When disagreements occurs.. if the involved parties want solutions, there may be difficulties in telling the involved parties to change or reduce their expectations. But how can we increase the success rate?

• Cool off time - Because some people are irrational when they are emotional, and some may say words which they do not mean..
  
• remind themselves of the BIGGER PICTURE, why they have chosen to be involved at the start
  
• remind them that nothing will be achieved if everyone only thinks of themselves

Expectations are everywhere.. But some are too high for some to reach.. In the end, we just have to ask ourselves what is more important. Our expectations, or the other person/s?

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Saw this pile of cigarettes at one of the rubbish bins at Raffles Place. The office people must be damn stressed.. haha..

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A photo of us at Turi beach, Batam.