Friday, January 15, 2010

fields of blooming flowers

Just because it's the best you ever had, doesn't mean it's the best that you're going to have.
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You may not experience the same feelings again with another person, but you can experience new feelings with another... Don't be afraid that you are not able to find someone who will make you feel the same way you did. Nobody can. Everybody gives you a different feeling.... You can choose to be as happy.. or even happier :o

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The more you want to avoid something, the more power you are giving it, the more it can affect you. If you want to give yourself a chance to feel better, just face it and accept it, and it will have less power over you. You don't have to give it power to affect you, to make yourself sad, to remind yourself that you have been loved before. You have been loved and is still being loved....
Hmmm.... To elaborate on this example... We should not be too focused on waiting for a particular flower to bloom, otherwise we will be oblivious to the others that have.

3 comments:

sweet disposition said...

this post really relates to me at the moment, its quite insightful really- im glad i stumbled upon your blog because it was exactly what i needed to hear today!

宅男 - 国容 said...

I'm glad that it made you feel better :o

Anonymous said...

What u wrote is totally true, just that sometimes it takes alot alot of courage to face certain issues. Heart rules over head most of the time. Isn't it?

-Meowmeow

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