get off the fence b4 you fall and hurt someone

When you don't want to hurt anybody, but yet you have to choose sides... it is okay to just choose one side. Hesitating to make a choice will kinda hurt both of them, and hurt you indirectly. Always remember to make the choice based on what you want, not based on how much the other person wants you to do it. (... if you wanna make your choice based on the other person, that's fine.. just remember not to be pressured into making a choice.)