differwent same

Does anybody know of any symptoms that will occur before you get skin cancer? I think i've been getting quite a lot of sun lately.... :s








Our first time :o touching the danger line over at Marina Barrage... The others were too lazy to paddle a few more hundred metres.... :p




Since young, i think most of us have been conditioned to see things in the same way, behave in the same way.

See things in the same way being, we will tend to slap labels on things with one or two similar characteristics, with regards to our past experiences.
Behave in the same way being, whenever we behave differently from how we normally behave, people will ask us whether there is anything wrong. And this question will keep popping up until, we think that it is normal for us to always be the same, abnormal to be different from usual. And we'll also tend to behave in a way which others expect from us. There are a lot of reasons for this. e.g. to want to be liked, to not let others down, to depend on others' expectations for convenience's sake ( because it is easier to blame others for not being able to reach their expectations instead of yours...), etc...

We do not have to limit ourselves by always having to see things in the same way, and we don't have to limit ourselves by always having to believe in the same way or in any other way that we are not comfortable with. So, whenever you do any of these 2 actions, ask yourself whether you are doing these out of habit or out of force or whether you have tried and experienced everything yourself, and you like these the best.