Friday, August 6, 2010

joys in non-freedom

In one of my opinions...
loving someone/being together with someone means mutual and willing fulfillment of each others' wants. If your wants include wanting the other to fulfill your wants, *deh!!!!*, wrong :o You can expect another person to do what you want, but whether that person will do it, it is up to him/her. Obligations will kill any relationship sooner or later... There is no law, written or unwritten, that the other person must do what you want. You will not want to be forced to do anything too...

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"We have no trouble anticipating the advantages that freedom can provide, but we seem blind to the joys it can undermine."

2 comments:

sarah said...

hahah relationships are meant to be easy and comfortable. If you keep thinking about all aspects of the relationship except the person that you like, then it kinda defeats enjoying the person.

very simply put, if you love someone, you want to make him/her happy. and making him/her happy, makes you happy. if it becomes an obligation to do, then you don't really like the person enough. \

hope this helps????????:D

宅男 - 国容 said...

sarah: yeah... it did and it will... haha... have a good day :o

Me me me!!: :/

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