Like.. It happens when you admire the actions, behavior, character of the other party. The mental aspect plays a bigger part as it is because of these factors, that might lead you to think of what kind of person she/he is and therefore, establishing a link between what she/he does, to her/his character/personality. Sometimes, or most of the time, people link good looks to good character. I think this stereotyping trend has started since a very very very long time ago and it's being supported by fiction books, dramas, movies, etc.. The good people are always good looking, while the bad people are... bad looking.. :p But, recently, i think there's a change in this trend. On more and more occasions, the bad people are getting better looking. I don't really know whether did the director wanted to reflect reality or whether he/she just wanted to attract more viewers by appealing to their lust... :p
Like and lust occurs very easily if you have a low threshold.
I've said it before and i still have the same stand on it. Love is in a totally different league from like and lust. Loving a person, means liking the person no matter who/what she/he becomes."
But there are some people who mistake like and lust, for love... :/
Someone said " ' i don't want to lose you' just doesn't have the same meaning it had for me..."
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Ways to have a good relationship:
---Work on your r/s with meaningful goals that will contribute to your relationship health and your happiness.Work on your r/s with logic and reason, not with max effort.
---attitude triumphs over outcome. the world is changing everyday. u r changing everyday. There's no way to predict what will happen or when will anything happen. What u can do, is continue. Continue being someone who contributes to other's happiness. Continue being someone who sees the good ard u. Continue being someone who would offer love, affection n support to the right partner.
---decide whether u want to win or b happy.
---a r/s starts with urself. If u think a r/s will complete u, fill up any holes in ur lives, but, if u're not happy with who u r, a r/s will not change this fact and it will be difficult to maintain a healthy r/s.
---It is better to lose your pride to the one you love,
than to lose the one you love because of pride.
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