Going for a school camp later :o
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Saturday, July 25, 2009
care bear
i won 3000 plus in fb mj tonight :) ... haha... :p
Not caring about someone, not caring about someone's opinions, and not letting someone else's opinions affect you, are three different things. You can still care about someone.. You can still care about their opinions... And you don't have to let their opinions affect you.. don't have to let their opinions control your thinking/behavior... Everybody's rights and wrongs are subjective.. The majority of the population/society
holding the same opinion does not make it a righter one...
Friday, July 24, 2009
ask for more
Lots and lots of skin ah :oCan you guess what thing is the below photo showing?
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haha... :p
I had a good start to my day today... when i won 1000 plus in the mahjong application on fb... :p Then the weather was nice for sun tanning... Had a good linner... My tuition kid's behavior was kind of good today... Caught up with two friends today... Had $8.50 worth of sushi for just $1.50 because it was the first day of their opening and they were closing... Had a nice supper too... Had good company throughout the day :o I am thankful for the good day i had today... Can i have more of these kind of days? :p ... not just the mj part ah... but everything else :o
Thank you in advance (@_@) ......... .......Think i am kinda lame... :6
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
the secret
"his whole life changed, because he changed from focusing on what he did not want, what he was afraid of, what he wanted to avoid, to focusing on what he did want.
So we may be very positive in our outlook and orientation and we tend to attract positive people and positive events and circumstances.
When we're very negative in our orientation, or very angry, in which case we tend to attract negative angry people, and negative angry circumstances.
And so you end up attracting to you, the predominant thoughts that you are holding in your awareness, whether those thoughts are conscious, or whether they're unconscious.
What you think about, you bring about.
Your life is a physical manifestation of the thoughts that go on in your head.
So, the law of attraction, the study and practice of the law of attraction, is just figuring out what will help you generate the feelings of having it now. Go test drive that car, go shop for that home, get in the house, do whatever you need to do to generate the feeling of having it now, and remember them. Whatever you can do to do that, will help you to literally attract it
Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step.
When you want to change your circumstances, you must first change your thinking.
So we're constantly living in this residual, if you will, of the thoughts and actions we've taken in the past. When you look at your current state of affairs and define yourself by that, then you doom yourself to have nothing more than the same in the future.
Start making a list of things to be grateful for. Start with that, because this shifts your energy. It starts to shift your thinking. Where before this exercise, you might be focusing on what you don't have, and you might be focusing on your complaints, and you might be focusing on whatever the problems are, when you do this exercise you start to go in a different direction. You start to be grateful for all the things that you feel good about. Gratitude is absolutely the way to bring more into your life.
When you visualize, you materialize.
When you're visualizing, when you've got that picture playing out in your mind, always and only dwell upon the end result.
When you have inspired thought
You have to trust it
You have to act on it.
Instead, give more to yourself. Take time off to give to yourself, in a sense to fill yourself up to fullness, to where now you can overflow in giving.
It wasn't until I fell in love with Lisa, my mocha skin, my full lips, my round hips, my curly hair, it wasn't until that moment that I fell in love with me, that the rest of the world was able to fall in love with me as well.
And as soon as you love yourself, you'll love others.
For relationships to really work, we need to focus on what we appreciate about the other person, not what we are complaining about. When we're complaining about those things, we're only getting more of those things. Even if you're having a really hard time in your relationship... things aren't working, you're not getting along, someone's in your face.... you still can turn that relationship around. Take a piece of paper, and for the next thirty days, once a day sit down and write all the things that you appreciate about that person. Think about all the reasons that you love them. You appreciate their sense of humour, you appreciate how supportive they are. And what you'll find is that when you focus on appreciating and acknowledging their strengths, that's what you'll get more of. And the problems will fade away.
We cannot control other people, no matter how hard we try.
We create our own happiness through the law of attraction.
Often times, you give others the opportunity to create your happiness. And many times they fail to create it the way you want it.
Why?
Because only one person can be in charge of your joy, of your bliss. And that's you.
Remove physiological stress from the body, and the body does what it was designed to do. It heals itself.
What you resist persist.
You want to focus on what you want, not what you don't want. It's okay to notice what you don't want, because that gives you contrast to say "Well, this is what I do want." But the fact is, the more you talk about what you don't want, or talk about how bad it is, read about that all the time, and say how terrible it is, well, you're creating more of that.
Learn to become still, and to take your attention away from what you don't want, and all the emotional charge around it, and place the attention on what you wish to experience.
Energy flows where attention goes.
Now the truth is, there's more than enough good to go around. There's more than enough creative ideas, there's more than enough power, there's more than enough love, there's more than enough joy.
When people focus on what they want, what they don't want falls away.
You are the designer of your destiny.
You are the author.
You write the story.
The pen is in your hand.
And the outcome is whatever you choose.
"Whether you think you can
or you cant
either way you are right"
-Henry Ford
You were born to add something, to add value, to simply be the best that you can be."
-quoted from "the secret"
So we may be very positive in our outlook and orientation and we tend to attract positive people and positive events and circumstances.
When we're very negative in our orientation, or very angry, in which case we tend to attract negative angry people, and negative angry circumstances.
And so you end up attracting to you, the predominant thoughts that you are holding in your awareness, whether those thoughts are conscious, or whether they're unconscious.
What you think about, you bring about.
Your life is a physical manifestation of the thoughts that go on in your head.
So, the law of attraction, the study and practice of the law of attraction, is just figuring out what will help you generate the feelings of having it now. Go test drive that car, go shop for that home, get in the house, do whatever you need to do to generate the feeling of having it now, and remember them. Whatever you can do to do that, will help you to literally attract it
Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step.
When you want to change your circumstances, you must first change your thinking.
So we're constantly living in this residual, if you will, of the thoughts and actions we've taken in the past. When you look at your current state of affairs and define yourself by that, then you doom yourself to have nothing more than the same in the future.
Start making a list of things to be grateful for. Start with that, because this shifts your energy. It starts to shift your thinking. Where before this exercise, you might be focusing on what you don't have, and you might be focusing on your complaints, and you might be focusing on whatever the problems are, when you do this exercise you start to go in a different direction. You start to be grateful for all the things that you feel good about. Gratitude is absolutely the way to bring more into your life.
When you visualize, you materialize.
When you're visualizing, when you've got that picture playing out in your mind, always and only dwell upon the end result.
When you have inspired thought
You have to trust it
You have to act on it.
Instead, give more to yourself. Take time off to give to yourself, in a sense to fill yourself up to fullness, to where now you can overflow in giving.
It wasn't until I fell in love with Lisa, my mocha skin, my full lips, my round hips, my curly hair, it wasn't until that moment that I fell in love with me, that the rest of the world was able to fall in love with me as well.
And as soon as you love yourself, you'll love others.
For relationships to really work, we need to focus on what we appreciate about the other person, not what we are complaining about. When we're complaining about those things, we're only getting more of those things. Even if you're having a really hard time in your relationship... things aren't working, you're not getting along, someone's in your face.... you still can turn that relationship around. Take a piece of paper, and for the next thirty days, once a day sit down and write all the things that you appreciate about that person. Think about all the reasons that you love them. You appreciate their sense of humour, you appreciate how supportive they are. And what you'll find is that when you focus on appreciating and acknowledging their strengths, that's what you'll get more of. And the problems will fade away.
We cannot control other people, no matter how hard we try.
We create our own happiness through the law of attraction.
Often times, you give others the opportunity to create your happiness. And many times they fail to create it the way you want it.
Why?
Because only one person can be in charge of your joy, of your bliss. And that's you.
Remove physiological stress from the body, and the body does what it was designed to do. It heals itself.
What you resist persist.
You want to focus on what you want, not what you don't want. It's okay to notice what you don't want, because that gives you contrast to say "Well, this is what I do want." But the fact is, the more you talk about what you don't want, or talk about how bad it is, read about that all the time, and say how terrible it is, well, you're creating more of that.
Learn to become still, and to take your attention away from what you don't want, and all the emotional charge around it, and place the attention on what you wish to experience.
Energy flows where attention goes.
Now the truth is, there's more than enough good to go around. There's more than enough creative ideas, there's more than enough power, there's more than enough love, there's more than enough joy.
When people focus on what they want, what they don't want falls away.
You are the designer of your destiny.
You are the author.
You write the story.
The pen is in your hand.
And the outcome is whatever you choose.
"Whether you think you can
or you cant
either way you are right"
-Henry Ford
You were born to add something, to add value, to simply be the best that you can be."
-quoted from "the secret"
old link
was going through the websites in my bookmarks when i came across this again.. received this link 3 or 4 years back..
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
giveth power
"Each interaction "begins to end" the instant it "begins to begins." Only when this is truly contemplated and deeply understood does the full treasure of every moment - and of life itself - open to you.
Your time with each person would be glorified if you thought it was your last time with that person. Your experience of each moment would be enhanced beyond measure if you thought it was the last such moment.
When you look deeply at something, you see right through it. To contemplate a thing deeply is to see right through it. Then the illusion ceases to exist. Then you see a thing for what it really is. nly then can you enjoy it - that is, place joy in it. (To "en-joy" is to render something joyful.)
Even the illusion you can then enjoy. For you will know it is an illusion, and that is half the enjoyment! It is the fact that you think it is real that causes you all the pain.
Nothing is painful which you understand is not real."
-quoted.
Your time with each person would be glorified if you thought it was your last time with that person. Your experience of each moment would be enhanced beyond measure if you thought it was the last such moment.
When you look deeply at something, you see right through it. To contemplate a thing deeply is to see right through it. Then the illusion ceases to exist. Then you see a thing for what it really is. nly then can you enjoy it - that is, place joy in it. (To "en-joy" is to render something joyful.)
Even the illusion you can then enjoy. For you will know it is an illusion, and that is half the enjoyment! It is the fact that you think it is real that causes you all the pain.
Nothing is painful which you understand is not real."
-quoted.
猪猪人重出江湖
I don't know why... for the past few nights, I have been thinking of the breakfast that I was going to eat for the next day... :s And I am not as disciplined as in the past.. in exercising regularly... :S
just walked past this today :p
There have been a lot of food promotions going on... :s
Monday, July 20, 2009
quote
"Glorify what you are today, yet do not condemn what you were yesterday, nor preclude what you could become tomorrow."
-quote :6
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