For those people who stays in abusive (both physically and/or mentally) relationships just because they think they cannot find anyone better... Just get out of it immediately. As the saying goes, "there is always someone better out there." You will definitely find a better one out there. But this can only happen if you let go of the present. And as someone said, " You are in charge of your own happiness, and your own unhappiness."
If you don't think you can do it, you can get some help from friends and your family. Things will start to get better once you take action :o Treat yourself better... Give yourself a chance to find that person who will treat you well...
Remember that what matters, is the consistent behavior, and not the irregular good treatment...
2 comments:
its really not easy because of low self esteem.
agree... but it is not impossible. That is where close friends and families come in... to give the person support, to let him/her know that if he/she are tired of being strong, he/she can rest on their shoulders to recharge himself/herself :o
if nobody approach the person, the person must take the initiative to ask for help because nobody will know until he/she tells someone... Don't be discouraged if the first or second person can't help much... If you really wanna feel better, you will find all ways and do everything to help yourself feel better.
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