Friday, February 27, 2009
big rainbow
I wonder... Will anything happen to those bus drivers who get cursed a lot? ... Will a certain amount of curses be turned into a significant amount of bad luck? ... Yesterday morning, I did not really board the bus properly when the bus uncle shut the doors :/ I was just following this other passenger up the bus and the door just shut and knocked me in the back and almost clamped my sling bag.. :s Immediately after that happened, I wanted to tell him off... But after I hesitated for a while, I decided not to as I felt that the "moment" was gone and i could not be fierce.. :/
To the Indian bus uncle who does not have a lot of hair, and who drove bus no. 25 past AMK station: Please always check before closing the bus doors..
Who decides what is better for us? God? Parents? Friends? Or ourselves? ...
The answer is.. ourselves. But, this is if we know what we want. For some or most of us who do not know what we want, we tend to depend on other people to tell/show us what we want, what we need. We think that what works for others, should work for us too.. This is not necessarily the case.
Monday, February 23, 2009
think change
There's a difference in changing yourself to make someone like you and changing yourself to make the person you like happy.. I support the latter :o ... It's the thought that counts..
- thought about this while i was at work this afternoon..
Sunday, February 22, 2009
解释就是掩饰... ...吗?
I can't make your heart feel something it won't.
I Can't Make You Love Me - Bonnie Raitt
"There's a reason why people don't stay where they are.
Baby, sometimes love just ain't enough."
Sometimes Love Just Aint Enough - Patty Smith feat. Don Henley
---took the above quotes from an issue of Reader's Digest.
Imagine a sphere with you in the centre... Place the people around in the sphere in various positions based on the relationships you think you have with that person.. Some people can be far or near.. Some people can be on top or below you.. Some people can be behind or in front.. And.. Some people may be facing you or you might only see their backs.. There will also be situations where backs are facing each other... What would your sphere look like?
Thursday, February 19, 2009
daydream, romance, imagination..
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
happy love
Sunday, February 15, 2009
smoking
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Our "smoking" refers to us keeping our mouths completely filled with air, while trying to breathe more air into them. After around 7 seconds, we'll open our mouths for a sec, then slowly blow out.. Smoke is produced :o
He wanted to use my camera to take some photos.
His house overlooks the causeway. This is how cool right...
tip for procrastinators
It would help if we could better prioritize the things we have to do. The Straits Times had this article which suggests that we could organize our tasks into 3 different categories.
- things that require immediate action for a positive development
- things that are important but not urgent
- things that do not help you progress
Promises should not be given freely. Promise should not be made at anybody's whim. Promises should not be made at any rush of passion... ... Promises are not meant to be broken..
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
muffins/cupcakes?
Immediately after breakfast, we went to buy the rest of the ingredients.
Arghhh... My face is getting rounder.
I still remember that during my seconday school or JC days, there was this street fighter fighting game where there were normal and evil versions of certain characters. You can get the evil versions after pressing a certain combination of buttons at a certain timing. Evil Ryu, evil Akuma, evil Chun li were a few of them. The photo below shows the evil version of the cupcake above.
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haha.... :p
If you don't remember the photo of the icing tubes that i posted at the top of this entry, go look at it again and don't ever buy them. It tastes... yucky :s Just a slight lick was enough to make me shudder... :s :s
... I think... I'll........ go bathe and sleep le..
so true :o ... (most of it)
Aquarius Astrology January 20 – February 18
Aquarius Strength Keywords:
- Witty- Clever- Humanitarian- Inventive- Original
Aquarius Weakness Keywords:
- Stubborn- Unemotional- Sarcastic- Rebellious- Aloof
Aquarius and Independence:
Aquarius personality is very independent, any attempt to hold them down or restrict them will cause them, to flee. They need to be free to be on their own. Independence is not just desired by Aquarius, it is essential to their well being.
Aquarius and Friendship:
Beneath the detached, unemotional exterior lies a kind hearted friend that will go out of their way to help another. They love to make people laugh and cheer people up and it makes them feel good to make others feel good. They do not expect anything in return for this could put a damper on their freedom, they live with no strings attached. They are very unconventional and always full of excitement, an Aquarius friend always makes life fun. They might offer you a spontaneous last minute camping trip with no supplies prepared, if you decide to go along, you will have a weekend to remember forever!
Aquarius and Business:
Aquarius likes to do something useful with their lives, mixing that with their amazing way with people, they make excellent politicians and social workers/psychologists. They are progressive thinkers and are great at forming new ideologies and theories, any type of research is very suited to Aquarius. Aquarius one downfall in the business
world is the attention to detail, they like the grand ideas and massive plans and can make them happen, but the mundane day to day repetitive details causes them to procrastinate. Aquarius needs a secretary.
Aquarius and Temperament:
Aquarius tend to be rebels just for the sake of having their own way. Their stubbornness sometimes causes their failure, they will continue to do something their way even though others have proved it is wrong, they are very smart people and know it is wrong but they will continue just because it is their way, they are very fixed in
opinion and stubborn when confronted. Despite their stubbornness and fixed opinion, they will never impose their ideas on others, they have respect for everybody's differences.
Aquarius Deep Inside:
Aquarius are in search of wisdom, they are very observant and they can gather their information objectively because emotions do not get in the way, they seem to be above emotions altogether and when they speak, they speak the truth. Sometimes it may be shocking or painful because of their disregard for the feelings of others, but
they intend no harm, they call it like they see it and do not emotions cloud their judgment, they are very detached from emotion. It is not that Aquarius are unemotional, they just to not trust their emotions so they incorporate them into their ideas of who they are. As a result, if someone does not agree with their ideas, Aquarius sometimes takes it personally, not as much as other zodiac signs however as Aquarius is intellect driven and not emotionally driven. Sometimes they wonder if there is something in life that they are missing because they do not feel like other people feel. This does not necessarily prevent them from being involved in intimate relationships, they are capable of this but the person on the other end will always notice an air of detachment from Aquarius. Aquarius wonders 'why?' so much that they can question their existence. They wonder if what they are doing is useful, they want other people to notice them and appreciate them, this is caused by underlying insecurities that wonder if other people accept them for who they are but these are never brought to the surface because to an Aquarius, it does not matter that much because they know that they are special.
Aquarius in a Nutshell:
Aquarius is the sign of visionaries, unconventionality and intellectual independence. Aquarius are the people who deviate from the crowd and go their own way. They are always after intellectual stimulation, constantly discovering something new, forming new opinions and stubbornly traveling their way regardless of what other people think. Aquarius are filled with paradoxes, they are interested in the opposite ends of the spectrum, they like to be alone yet are social butterflies, they like to experience both sides and see both opinions as they formulate new ideas with their forward thinking, active mind. Aquarius have a 'live and let live' policy where everyone is free to be themselves, an Aquarius never judges others because as human beings, we are all equal and entitled to our own opinions. They are verbally skilled and very witty, they observe people and learn how to interact with others through observation. They can be masters of manipulation justifying anything they do or think. As a result, they can deal with any type of personality and adapt to any situation. They welcome change because boredom is their enemy. Anything new is an opportunity to Aquarius. Aquarius can act as an expert on any topic, they are very good at inflating their own importance, they feel it is deserved because their eccentricity makes them unique. Conventional people beware, Aquarius likes to shock and deviate from the norm, this is how they live. Aquarius is known to pick at anyone they find weak or dull-minded. It is simply an easy target for verbal exercise for them, no harm is meant but it might be taken from the other person. Deep inside, Aquarius would never intentionally hurt anyone, they have respect for every human, even thought this might not seem apparent to the more emotional types.
What it's Like to Date a Aquarius Woman:
The Aquarius woman is the ultimate independent woman. She is funny, smart, adventurous, never clingy or jealous, never demanding and not overly emotional. She is unpredictable and craves excitement. Anything goes with this woman and any man that she chooses will have an amazing relationship. Court her and woo her, she
expects this ladylike treatment, she is old fashioned in that sense but be known that her mind is already made up and if she is not interested, she will never be interested. The relationship will progress slowly because she does not get emotionally involved very easily and she is not one for showy displays of romantic affection. The man who
is trying to win her heart has to treat her with respect and treat her as an equal. Communication is key, this is how a relationship with an Aquarius woman evolves. Once she trusts you and you two grow closer, she is an amazing loyal and kindhearted person. She will always seem to be detached, she fears losing her identity in a relationship so do not be surprised if even in a long term relationship she seems more like a fiend then a romantic partner. Do not press her emotionally or tie her down with demands and obligations because this will cause her to run. Never be jealous, this is a big red flag to her and she will leave right away, the Aquarius woman can never be tied down, she is free as a bird. If you give her all she needs, she will be completely faithful so you should not worry when she is out on her own, give her space and respect her privacy and all will be well. Aquarius woman is for the man who loves a challenge and adventure.
What it's Like to Date a Aquarius Man:
This man is all about intellectual stimulation. You can be the prettiest girl in the world but if you do not stir his mind, he won't bother. Communication is so important to this man. Deep inside he longs for love but this causes him inner trouble because of his inability to understand emotion so an Aquarius man in love often stumbles on his own words, be patient with him and don't hold it against him because deep inside, he is having fun. Beware that an Aquarius man can fall out of love as easily as falling in love. The woman has to be able to adapt to him, he will not change for anybody and demands respect and understanding for the way he is, no matter how eccentric his
ideals are. He needs stimulation and a partner to share life's adventures with, not just someone to sit on the couch and watch a movie all the time. Do not press him emotionally or tie him down with demands and obligations because this will cause him to run. Never be jealous, this is a big red flag to him and he will leave right away,
the Aquarius man can never be tied down. If you give him all he needs, he will be completely faithful so you should not worry when he is out on his own, give him space and respect his privacy and all will be well. Aquarius man is for the woman who loves a challenge and adventure.
How to Attract Aquarius:
Communication is key. You must be able to stimulate their minds, engage in a friendly, witty verbal battle but do not expect to come to any conclusions, this is not the point. They crave the brain exercise. If you unable to keep up with the intellect and the unconventional ways that Aquarius is known for, you might want to look elsewhere. Aquarius needs communication compatibility more then anything else. Have variety in your dates, think of interesting things to do like a trip to the zoo, but if you can't think of any crazy idea, leave it up to Aquarius to make plans but do not be surprised if they change the plan in the middle, be flexible like them. They do not like
naggers or complainers so keep the talk positive and all should be well.
Aquarius Erogenous Zone:
The calves and ankles are the most sensitive spots. Most Aquarius like their ankles tied together or at least held down. They enjoy calf massages and light scratching with your fingernails on their ankles and legs.
Sex with Aquarius: Aquarius have a very imaginative approach to sex, they like creativity and novelty, they are not fond of not passion and an emotional sex. Sex to an Aquarius is a fun thing, expect to laugh and be silly, it's like a fun game between a couple. Anything goes with Aquarius, they like spontaneous encounters and quickies.
If you want to know what your horoscope says, just msg me or leave a comment, and i'll either email you back or post it up.
Monday, February 9, 2009
heavier bag = whinier
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Haha.. He said it's for me to hang up my reflective vest or other clothes at the new site. I am grateful to him because he... sort of looked after me for this one month. Most of the time, whenever i had any questions or problems, i would ask him for advice or his opinion.
I love my new pencil case :o
Friday, February 6, 2009
*piak*
When i began to see that the work i did, didn't matter to anyone.. I began to lose interest in what I was doing.. ..
Haha... Around noon time today, i tagged on wen's blog, saying that our own opinions should matter more than the opinions of others.. I'm slapping my own face.. :p Maybe it is because I am doing things that i do not have much interest in.. That's why my own opinions don't provide much motivation for myself..
Love can be like a game of poker. The fun comes from bluffing others with what you have. If you show hand at the start, the game would not be that fun and interesting.. (This point of view only comes from one small angle. )
Thursday, February 5, 2009
mangooey
I agree that we should give up our seats to the elderly. But in this letter posted on The Straits Times, it seemed that this writer has an... untactful way of sharing her opinions. It seemed to me that she is demanding that seats are given to her.. and the elderly.. Hmmm.. Sorry.. I have this thing about people placing demands on others. I think all of us should give up our seats to those people who have difficulty standing, no matter whether are they young, old, injured, or when they have disabilities. To me, it seemed that the writer is able-bodied enough to stand, and that she just wants to be given a seat because she feels that it is a right... :/
I like this photo :o